| Contents |
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| Introduction |
vii |
| PART 1 |
|
| 1. Emotional Involvement |
3 |
| 2. Hard-bought Wisdom |
10 |
| 3. What Other People Do to Us |
18 |
| 4. What We Do to Others |
26 |
| 5. Our Approach to Others |
33 |
| 6. What Is It Like to Be Real |
40 |
| 7. What Can We Do for Others |
47 |
| 8. Questions for Counselors |
54 |
| PART 2 |
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| 9. How Do We Interview? |
63 |
| 10. More Aspects of Interviewing |
69 |
| 11. The Resistant Client |
76 |
| 12. The Reluctant Client |
84 |
| 13. The Problem of Diagnosis |
91 |
| 14. Listening to the Story |
103 |
| 15. When Counseling Does Not work |
109 |
| 16. The Problem of Referral |
115 |
| 17. When Can I Say What I Feel? |
122 |
| 18. The Use of Confrontation |
128 |
| PART 3 |
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| 19. Fear and Trembling: Context for Anxiety |
137 |
| 20. Problems of Healthy People |
144 |
| 21. The Everyman Illness: Depression |
152 |
| 22. What Depresses People |
159 |
| 23. The Core of Depression |
166 |
| 24. The Language of Neurosis |
172 |
| 25. The Meaning of the Language |
179 |
| 26. The Obsessive Style |
186 |
| 27. More on the Obsessive Style |
193 |
| 28. The Hysterical Personality |
200 |
| 29. More on the Hysterical Personality |
206 |
| PART 4 |
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| 30. Marriage Counseling |
215 |
| 31. More on Marriage Counseling |
221 |
| 32. Death in Our Culture |
228 |
| 33. Suicide Risks: Who are They? |
236 |
| 34. Suicide: Weighing the Risk? |
242 |
| 35. Working with Grief and Mourning |
249 |
| 36. Aftermath of Grief |
255 |
| 37. Emergencies: What are They? |
262 |
| 38. The Demensions of Emergency Situations |
269 |
| 39. The Antisocial Persionality |
276 |
| 40. Working with the Seriously Disturbed |
289 |
| 41. The Paranoid |
301 |
| 42. Drugs and Youth |
313 |
| 43. Persons with Dringking Problems |
325 |
| 44. Closing Arguments |
331 |